Highly recommend this book. I would listen to it to and from work and then shifted my conversations with my son accordingly. I’m really glad I got this. A focus of the book is how to help your son develop his own skill set to grow his confidence and self motivation. I really appreciate that the book did not propose generalities, but instead provided specific examples of conversations and how to speak to your son as well as parenting examples for dealing with resistance and noncompliance. Read it. Feel lighter. Enjoy as your relationship with your son grows into something long, lasting for the future.