I think if anyone is having trouble trying to understand the mind of their teenager, this book can provide you much needed insight from someone who has a lot of experience talking to teenagers. If you find that, while listening, you realize you’re doing a lot of these things then it acts as a great piece to provide extra inertia for your motivation. Additionally, I think this book might be a good reference every once in a while when you’re feeling like you’re losing control and you are at odds with your teen. Part of the process!