I got this book based on the title and didn’t look into the reviews at all. The book seems like it was written by a woman that was in a bad relationship for years. She got manipulated for so long that she had to write a book about it. Most of her examples were, “if he does this” or “when he says that”. She tries to be general sometimes but it seems forced. She mostly complains about guys. Guys are by no means innocent, but neither or girls.